The week before a building job starts sets the whole tone

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Introduction

Most of the arguments on a building job are already loaded before the first van arrives. The customer has a picture in their head of how it will go, the builder has a different one, and nobody has compared the two. Then week three arrives, somebody says "I assumed you were doing that", and the relationship never fully recovers.

The fix is almost embarrassingly cheap. One conversation and one sheet of paper in the week before work starts prevents most of what goes wrong later. It costs an hour and it protects both the margin and the reference.

1. The week before a building job starts is when expectations get set

Whatever is not discussed now will be assumed instead, and the assumption will not be yours.

Walk the job with the customer one more time

Stand in the space and describe out loud what will happen and in what order. People understand a sequence far better than a specification, and this is where they remember the thing they forgot to mention.

Confirm what is not included

Decorating, making good, moving furniture, disposing of the old units. Every trade has a list of things customers routinely assume are part of the price. Say them out loud rather than relying on the quotation wording.

2. Agree the practical arrangements

These are small and they cause more friction than money does.

Access, parking, keys and working hours

Who lets you in, where the van goes, what time you start. A neighbour dispute about a van on day two is entirely avoidable.

Water, power, toilet and welfare

Agree it now. Ask the question a week early. Turning up and asking is a bad first impression and it wastes an hour of everybody's morning.

3. Be honest about disruption

Customers can cope with almost anything they were warned about.

Say what the worst days will be like

Dust, noise, no kitchen, no bathroom for two days. Naming it in advance turns it into a plan rather than a grievance.

Give a realistic sequence with slack in it

Not the best case. A programme that assumes nothing goes wrong is a programme that will make you look incompetent by week two.

4. Settle the money before you start

Ambiguity here poisons everything.

Confirm the payment stages in writing

What is due, when, and against what. Both sides should be able to say what happens at the end of each stage without checking.

Explain how variations will work

How a change gets priced, agreed and recorded. Say plainly that you will not carry out extra work on a verbal nod, because that is where disputes start.

5. Set up how you will communicate

Most complaints are really about not being told.

Name one contact on each side

One person to make decisions, one person to ask. Three family members with different opinions is how a job loses a fortnight.

Agree how and when you will update them

A five-minute conversation at the end of Friday is enough. Customers who hear from you regularly stop worrying and stop interrupting the work.

Conclusion

Most disputes on a building job come from expectations nobody compared, so use the week before work starts to walk the job again, describe the sequence out loud, and say plainly what is not included — decorating, making good, moving furniture, clearing the old units.

Settle the practical things too: access, parking, hours, water, power and welfare, all of which cause more friction than money does. Be honest about the worst days and give a programme with slack in it rather than a best case. Confirm the payment stages and the variations process in writing, name one contact on each side, and agree a regular update — a few minutes on a Friday is enough to stop a customer worrying.